I, MISS [Zamazane] of [Zamazane] Bournemouth, Dorset, [Zamazane] will say as
follows;
- I make this statement in support of my application for a non-molestation order and
occupation order, made without notice to the Respondent. I have suffered verbal,
emotional, and physical abuse by the Respondent. Most recently, in the late hours on
24th June 2023, the Respondent breached his bail conditions. He had attended our
property unannounced; I heard a sudden repeated banging on the front door, my
body was instilled with panic I looked through the window and informed the
Respondent he should not be here, and I stated, “I’m going to call the police.” This
angered the Respondent further and he said, “do what you like I have nothing to
lose.” I felt extremely threatened and on edge by his conduct, I proceeded to attempt
to call the police. I initially thought the Respondent left, however he proceeded to go
around and attempted to enter our property through the back gate. I panicked as I
saw him jumping
over the fence and into the back garden. I contacted the police imminently and they
had escorted him from my home. - Earlier that day I asked the Respondent to not return to our property as I had
discovered he had been unfaithful to me. The Respondent attended our property
later that day and had gain access through a window as I had locked all the doors.
The Respondent entered the property in such an infuriated manner, he shouted, “It’s
all mine”. I refrained from arguing with the Respondent further, he grabbed a hold of
me in a vice-like grip and pushed me forcefully against the wall. Consequently, my
body slammed against the ground1 my body was isolated with terror as the
Respondent stood over me and stated, “I am going to decide where to live. It’s all
mine. Your place is down here”. I cried in fear for my life, my son proceeded to come
downstairs as he had heard noises from upstairs. The Respondent immediately
stepped away from me after seeing my son come downstairs, I immediately
contacted the police, and he was arrested and later released subject to bail
conditions, stipulating that he is not to contact me directly or indirectly, and is not to
attend our property. The Respondent is an extremely unpredictable individual, he has
been relentless in his abuse and has left me fearing for my life. He has been volatile
in his conduct and despite being on bail conditions he has not been hesitant to
breach it the terms of the conditions, I therefore worry without this order I remain at
further risk of harm. - I was born on [Zamazane] and am 43 years old. I am a student. I have been
diagnosed with anxiety and depression. I take propranolol as medication. The
Respondent was born on [Zamazane] and is 43 years old. I do not know where he iscurrently residing. He is employed as a quality controller at [Zamazane]. I believe the
Respondent has a history of domestic violence. - The Respondent and I were in a relationship between 2020 and June 2023. We lived
together during our relationship. I have one child from a previous relationship,
[Zamazane] who was born on [Zamazane] and is [Zamazane] years old. - The family home for which I seek an Occupation Order is [Zamazane]
over the fence and into the back garden. I contacted the police imminently and they
had escorted him from my home. - Earlier that day I asked the Respondent to not return to our property as I had
discovered he had been unfaithful to me. The Respondent attended our property
later that day and had gain access through a window as I had locked all the doors.
The Respondent entered the property in such an infuriated manner, he shouted, “It’s
all mine”. I refrained from arguing with the Respondent further, he grabbed a hold of
me in a vice-like grip and pushed me forcefully against the wall. Consequently, my
body slammed against the ground1 my body was isolated with terror as the
Respondent stood over me and stated, “I am going to decide where to live. It’s all
mine. Your place is down here”. I cried in fear for my life, my son proceeded to come
downstairs as he had heard noises from upstairs. The Respondent immediately
stepped away from me after seeing my son come downstairs, I immediately
contacted the police, and he was arrested and later released subject to bail
conditions, stipulating that he is not to contact me directly or indirectly, and is not to
attend our property. The Respondent is an extremely unpredictable individual, he has
been relentless in his abuse and has left me fearing for my life. He has been volatile
in his conduct and despite being on bail conditions he has not been hesitant to
breach it the terms of the conditions, I therefore worry without this order I remain at
further risk of harm. - I was born on [Zamazane] and am 43 years old. I am a student. I have been
diagnosed with anxiety and depression. I take propranolol as medication. The
Respondent was born on [Zamazane] and is 43 years old. I do not know where he is
currently residing. He is employed as a quality controller at [Zamazane]. I believe the
Respondent has a history of domestic violence. - The Respondent and I were in a relationship between 2020 and June 2023. We lived
together during our relationship. I have one child from a previous relationship,
[Zamazane] who was born on [Zamazane] and is [Zamazane] years old. - The family home for which I seek an Occupation Order is [Zamazane]Bournemouth, Dorset, [Zamazane]. I currently reside there. This is a three-bedroom
house, which the Respondent and I rent. The tenancy is in both our name. The
tenancy is with Abri Housing Association. - I set out below a brief history of the abuse. This statement is being prepared on short
notice so that emergency orders can be obtained and, as such, it may not contain all
the incidents that have occurred. I have tried to include the main1 incidents, but I
seek permission to make a2 furthermore detailed statement if necessary to support
my application and any future court proceedings. - My relationship with the Respondent was initially fine. The Respondent’s behaviour
changed from late 2022, after I included him on my tenancy agreement. The
Respondent became controlling. On the occasions that I went out, the Respondent
would incessantly call me and send me text messages. He would want to know where
I was, with whom, and when I would return. He would accuse me of being unfaithful
to him. - The Respondent was verbally abusive. He would call me derogatory names and
would refer to me as a “crazy one”. - The Respondent would be manipulative. He would refer to my antidepressants as a
“crazy people drug”. He would also manipulate me into believing that I was at fault
for the problems in our relationship.
10.During arguments, the Respondent behaved in an aggressive manner. He would be
threatening and physically intimidating. He frequently stood over me and shouted
close to my face. The Respondent would slam doors.
11.The Respondent was violent towards me. He would grab my neck, slap me, kick me
and push me. This occurred on a few occasions. I would not contact the police, as I
believed the police would not believe me.
12.The worst incident of abuse occurred in 2022. The Respondent and I were arguing, I
do not recall what I had said. He became aggressive. He stood up and kicked my
stomach two or three times and said, “Don’t ever fucking talk to me this way”.
13.Following the worst incident of abuse, the Respondent’s abusive behaviour
persisted, as described previously.
14.On one occasion, the Respondent showed me an old picture of his broken nose and
jokingly suggested that I had caused his injury. However, in a later argument, the
Respondent accused me of having broken his nose, although this was a work-related
injury.15.On one occasion, in around March 2023, after an argument, I asked the Respondent
if he was fine and he insisted that he was fine. However, as I walked away, the
Respondent grabbed my neck and pushed me on the bed. He aggressively said,
“That’s your place to stay, stay where you are”.
16.Thereafter, the Respondent persisted with his abusive behaviour. He would not
financially contribute towards the rent and household expenditures. If I asked him for
money, he would say he did not have any money. He would say, “I am going to pray
for miracles”.
17.On one occasion, our dog chewed the Respondent’s post. The Respondent used my
bank card and Amazon account without my knowledge and purchased a new item. I
question him as to why he had used my bank card and he said, “It’s your dog, you pay
for it”.
18.Most recently, on 24th June 2023, I discovered that the Respondent had been
unfaithful to me with my friend. I packed the Respondent’s belongings and messaged
him not to return home. Subsequently, the Respondent returned and gained access
to our property through a window. I transferred him £600 and asked him to leave our
property. He became aggressive and said, “It’s all mine”. He pushed me to the wall
with such force my body slammed on to the ground. He then stood over me and said,
“I am going to
decide where to live. It’s all mine. Your place is down here. I do what I want, I am
going to have a shower and can’t wait to text my new girlfriend”. My body trembled in
fear, I cried in distress as I feared the Respondent harming me further. My son had
run downstairs as he heard the noises and had seen me crying, the Respondent
proceeded to step away from me upon seeing my son. I used this as an opportunity
to contact the police, they had attended our property and the Respondent was
arrested.
19.Shortly afterwards, the Respondent was released subject to bail conditions,
stipulating that he is not to contact me directly or indirectly, and is not to attend our
property. Within hours of the Respondent’s release, he breached the conditions by
attending my property unannounced, he was initially banging on the front door, my
body was instilled with panic I told the Respondent he should not be here, and I
stated, “I’m going to call the police.” This angered the Respondent further and he
said, “do what you like I have nothing to lose.” I felt extremely threatened and on
edge. He proceeded to go around and attempted to enter our property through the
back gate. I panicked as I saw him jumping over the fence and into the back garden; I
repeatedly asked him to leave. He demanded “Can we just talk. I’ve got nowhere tolive. Please just talk to me”. I contacted the police, and he was escorted from our
property.
20.I ask the court to grant this order due to the Respondent’s abusive behaviour
towards me. His behaviour is unpredictable, and I fear that it may escalate. I am
concerned that without the protection of this order, the Respondent will approach me
and harass me further. I do not know what he is capable of doing. I do not believe the
Respondent’s behaviour will stop without the court’s intervention.
Occupation Order Application
21.I am entitled to occupy our property as the tenancy is in our joint names.
22.The Respondent and I are associated persons under s33(1)(b)(i).
23.My child and I have suffered harm as a result of the Respondent’s abuse as detailed
above. If an occupation order were not made, my child and I will suffer significant
harm attributable to the Respondent. This harm is greater than any harm that would
be caused to the Respondent if the order were to be made.1
24.I am currently residing in the family home with my child. Our property has three
bedrooms and, therefore, meets our housing needs. The location where I am
currently studying is a 30-minute drive from the family home. In addition to this, my
child attends a local school, which is around a 15-minute bus journey from the family
home. If we were ordered to leave the family home, their education would be
disrupted.
25.The Respondent does not reside in the family home. He has not resided there since
24th June 2023, as he was arrested and made subject to bail conditions. I believe the
Respondent is residing at his new partner, or at his workplace. I believe his new
partner has sufficient space to accommodate him on a long-term basis, and
therefore, I believe he could continue to reside there. Alternatively, the Respondent
also has several friends in the local area, with whom he could stay.
26.I am a student and receive £800 per month in student finance. I have one child to
support. My monthly income is insufficient to afford to secure alternative privately
paid accommodation. The Respondent is employed and earns around £1,200 per
month. Therefore, the Respondent would be able to secure privately funded
accommodation.
27.The evidence of harm I have already suffered is set out in my witness statement and
I truly believe that unless an order is granted the Respondent will continue to cause
me significant harm.
28.I respectfully ask the court to make a non-molestation order and an occupation
order.29.I respectfully ask that these orders be made on an urgent without notice basis. I
need these orders to be granted for my own safety. The Respondent’s behaviour is
very unpredictable and I do not know what he is capable of doing. I believe that if this
order is not made without notice to the Respondent and the Respondent were put on
notice of such proceedings, this will provoke him and he would try to stop me from
making the
application. I therefore request the Court to make a non-molestation order and
occupation order without notice to the Respondent.
I believe that the facts stated in this statement are true. I understand that
proceedings for contempt of court may be brought against anyone who makes, or
causes1 to be made, a false statement in a document verified by a statement of truth
without an honest belief in its truth.
Signed:2 [Zamazane]
Dated: Jun 30 2023
IN THE FAMILY COURT AT BOURNEMOUTH CASE NO: BH23F00255
IN THE MATTER OF THE FAMILY LAW ACT 1996
BETWEEN:
MISS [Zamazane] APPLICANT
AND
MR ANDRZEJ MAJEWSKI RESPONDENT
SCHEDULE OF ALLEGATIONS
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IN THE FAMILY COURT AT BOURNEMOUTH CASE NO: BH23F00255
IN THE MATTER OF THE FAMILY LAW ACT 1996
BETWEEN:
MISS [Zamazane] APPLICANT
-AND-
MR ANDRZEJ MAJEWSKI RESPONDENT
SECOND STATEMENT OF MISS [Zamazane]I, Miss [Zamazane] of [Zamazane] Bournemouth, Dorset, [Zamazane] will say as
follows: - I am the Applicant herein and make this statement in accordance with the Court
order dated 21 July 2023. - I will now list the allegations of domestic abuse in turn. This statement is to be read
in conjunction with my schedule of allegations and my first witness statement. - Allegation 1: Throughout the relationship during arguments the Respondent
behaved in an aggressive manner. He would be threatening and intimidating. The
Respondent would bottle up his emotions and remain quiet for most of the day
which would then lead to him exploding. The Respondent stood over me and
shouted close to my face calling me names such as ‘psycho’ and sick’. The
Respondent would slam doors and
as a result has broken the front door. - Allegation 2: Throughout the relationship, the Respondent was violent towards me.
He would grab my neck, slap me, kick me and push me. This occurred on a few
occasions. He slapped me in my face when I refused to show him my phone after that
he would snatch my phone and go through the contents of it to the extent that he
would retrieve all my messages even before we were together so I would need to be
careful who I message and what I say. I did not call the police as I thought that they
would not believe me. - Allegation 3: In 2022 the Respondent and I were arguing. I do not recall what I had
said. The Respondent became aggressive, he stood up and kicked my stomach two or
three times and said, “Don’t ever fucking talk to me this way”. I was in sufficient
amount of pain and I struggled to get myself back up. - Allegation 4: In March 2023 after an argument, I asked the Respondent if he was fine
and he insisted that he was okay. However, as I walked away, the Respondent
grabbed my neck and pushed me on the bed. He aggressively said, “That’s your place
to stay, stay where you are”. I was shocked and was in disbelief that this had just
happened to me. - Allegation 5: On 24 June 2023, I discovered that the Respondent had been unfaithful
to me with my friend. I packed the Respondent’s belongings and messaged him not
to return home. Subsequently, the Respondent returned and gained access to our
property through a window. I transferred him £600 and asked him to leave our
property. He became aggressive and said, “It’s all mine”. He pushed me to the wall
with force to get out of his way. He then stood over me and said, “I am going to
decide where to live. It’s all mine. Your place is down here. I do what I want, I am
going to have a shower and can’t wait to text my new girlfriend”. My body trembled infear, I cried in distress as I feared the Respondent harming me further. My son had
run downstairs as he heard the noises and had seen me crying, the Respondent
proceeded to step away from me upon seeing my son. I used this as an opportunity
to contact the police, they had attended our property and the Respondent was
arrested. - Allegation 6: Shortly afterwards, the Respondent was released subject to bail
conditions, stipulating that he is not to contact me directly or indirectly, and is not to
attend our property. Within hours of the Respondent’s release, he breached the
conditions by attending my property unannounced, he was initially banging on the
front door, my body was instilled with panic I told the Respondent he should not be
here, and I stated, “I’m going to call the police.” This angered the Respondent further
and he said, “do what you like I have nothing to lose.” I felt extremely threatened and
on edge. He proceeded to go around and attempted to enter our property through
the back gate. I panicked as I saw him jumping over the fence and into the back
garden; I repeatedly asked him to leave. He demanded “Can we just talk. I’ve got
nowhere to live. Please just talk to me”. I contacted the police, and he was escorted
from our property. - Furthermore, an incident took place in 2022 whereby the Respondent monitored my
Facebook account. The Respondent found out that I was talking to a friend of mine
from Poland who I have known for last 35 years. He therefore called my parents in
Poland and started swearing and shouting at them and calling me derogatory
names. He accused me of meeting a male friend and cheating on him. I have never
met anyone, and the only reason I left the house that day was to get some space.
However, the Respondent persistently called me and eventually called my parents
who live in Poland.
10.I can confirm that there have been further incidents of abuse however due to the
frequency and the trauma I had endured due to the domestic abuse I am unable to
recall the specific incidents and the details therein.
I believe that the facts stated in this witness statement are true. I understand that
proceedings for contempt of court may be brought against anyone who makes, or
causes to be made, a false statement in a document verified by a statement of truth
without an honest belief in its truth.
Signed.1 [Zamazane] Dated. Aug 07 2023
[Zamazane] [Zamazane]IN THE FAMILY COURT AT BOURNEMOUTH CASE NO: BH23F00255
IN THE MATTER OF THE FAMILY LAW ACT 1996
BETWEEN:
MISS [Zamazane] APPLICANT
AND
MR ANDRZEJ MAJEWSKI RESPONDENT
RESPONSE STATEMENT OF
MISS [Zamazane]
I, MISS [Zamazane] of a confidential address make this statement pursuant to the
Order of Deputy District Judge Mitchell dated 15th July 2023. - I kindly ask the court that this statement is read in conjunction with my previously
filed statements which offer some historical context in respect of the relationship
between myself and the Respondent. - In response to paragraph 3 of the Respondent’s second statement, this is entirely
false. In 2021, the Respondent and I were arguing, and he left the house and
returned later that night completely drunk with a nosebleed. He began to say “Look
what happened to me, it’s all your fault” and “I took a photo, you did this to me”. I
said to him that I did not touch him and that I did not cause his nosebleed because
he was not home. I felt completely confused and I was made to feel guilty about
something that was not my fault. At a later argument a few weeks later, he used this
against me and said “Don’t forget about the photo of my broken nose”. I was
overcome with fear because I had no involvement in this. I do not understand why he
claimed his nose was broken, there was
no sign of him having a broken nose and this was completely new to me. I believe he
either fell over whilst drunk or had an altercation with somebody on his way home,
however, I am certain that I did not cause it. I have never seen the photos he claims
to have taken, so I do not know what it looks like. - I believe the Respondent is attempting to blame me for his nosebleed because a few
weeks prior to this incident, in November 2021 as stated in paragraph 11 of the
Respondent’s second statement, the Respondent and I were arguing because he was
saying I was psychotic for taking anti-depressants. He was certain that I was mentally
impaired, and that I was incapable of making my own decisions. He made me feel
crazy. I pleaded with him to stop saying that I was psychotic, and he began to googlesearch the matter and read every statement word for word to make me feel like I was
crazy. I told him to stop, and he lost his temper and began kicking me in my stomach.
I cried and went to bed, he remained in the home and slept on the sofa. The
Respondent may be attempting to clear his conscience by blaming me for his
nosebleed. - In response to paragraph 4 of the Respondent’s second statement, the Respondent
has been physically and emotionally abusive towards me which is why I applied for a
Non-Molestation Order without notice to the Respondent. The Respondent does not
appear to be an angry person, he has two personalities which often confused me.
The morning after an argument, he would act like nothing happened. He would
disregard the abuse and say “Have a lovely day! Next time don’t provoke me anymore
or tell me what to do”, with a smile on his face. I was confused by this narcissistic
trait. I would still be affected by the argument, and this would make me look like a
bad person. During the beginning of an argument, I would express my emotions and
plead with the Respondent to speak so that we can resolve this. He would stay quiet,
and suddenly explode with rage, throwing furniture, shouting, physically and verbally
abusing me. - The Respondent would always slam doors, and I would tell him to stop and use the
door handles. He would do it when we argued, whereby the loud noise would
frighten me. I explained that he must stop because I do not want my son to hear his
rage, I have tried my
utmost best to protect him from seeing any abuse. I have never kept any text
messages because I would try to forget and move on. I kindly refer the Court to my
previously filed statements and schedule of allegations explaining the full extent of
the abuse. - In response to paragraph 7 of the Respondent’s second statement, contrary to his
claims he has been unfaithful to me. During arguments, I would tell him to call his
new girlfriend and he would answer “I will do that now”. I have also seen his phone
where he searched ‘Love at the first signs with Aries’, whereas my sign is Sagittarius. I
later discovered that the girl he cheated on me with was an Aries. The Respondent
has created a false image of an honest man who has raised my hopes for a future,
which turned out to be an attempt to extort my property through registration and
fictitious financial outlays, it became an attempt to permanently settle the property in
which my son and I have lived for over 11 years. I believe the preservation of this plan
would be to have us evicted. - In response to paragraph 8 of the Respondent’s second statement, the bike in
question is my bike as I purchased it, therefore I could store it where it wasconvenient for me. I allowed the Respondent to use this bike so that he had the
means to leave my property when he liked (usually during arguments) so that he
would not stay and feed his anger. - In response to paragraph 12, my son is a happy child, and the Respondent would be
harsh on him which I entirely disliked. During half-term holidays, the Respondent
would wake my son up at 6:00 am to start the house chores. I contested against this
and did not allow this to continue as I argued he is allowed to sleep in during half
term. The Respondent would criticize my parenting capabilities and blame me for
being a bad mother and that I was spoiling my son. He would say “Why do you let
your son sleep till 11:00 am in holidays, I will not do any housework if this teenager is
comfortable sleeping in bed”. - I am entirely disappointed that the Respondent made comments regarding my son,
and claims that I am an alcoholic with abusive tendencies. Throughout our
relationship, the Respondent would verbally and emotionally abuse me by stating
that I am a bad mother, and I am unfit to care for my son. He has now mentioned this
in his statement and claims my son witnessed some abuse from a previous partner
which is completely incorrect. I
have protected my son with my life, and I would not expose him to any harm. My son
is [Zamazane] and I have raised him alone since birth. The Respondent was
introduced to my son three years ago. I am not an alcoholic, and I am an individual
who has strived for success for both me and my son. I was in university for three
years studying and I was training to become a nurse whilst working another job.
When I was occupied with long training hours, the Respondent would take my son to
extra-curricular activities as I could not. The Respondent seems to be using this
against me, however, I believe this is expected as goodwill when we all lived at my
home as a family. The Respondent reported me to social services during an
argument, and they arrived at 10:00 pm. On arrival, they said they had not seen
anything wrong and after speaking to my son they confirmed he was healthy and
well. They closed the case during this 30-minute visit. My son’s school knows me very
well and they are pleased with my son. He is an exceptional student with good
attendance, he is happy and healthy whilst exceeding beyond the pace of his age
group.
10.I have a good character and I work with vulnerable people in nursing. I have been in
the UK since 2005, I work hard, I gave birth to my son here, I obtained British
citizenship, and graduated from nursing studies with successful results. I currently
work as a registered nurse in Poole Hospital, and I work amongst professionals
where I maintain a high professional standard. I do not know how I could achieve thisif I was an alcoholic or mentally unstable as falsely claimed by the Respondent. I am
upset about the lies told in his statement, because there is no truth to it. I believe this
is an attempt at emotional abuse and another way to make me feel like nothing. The
Respondent further tried to frustrate matters at the last hearing, where he requested
a statement from the Judge by my ex-partner (my son’s father who has not been in
contact for over 10 years), which was refused.
I believe that the facts stated in this statement are true. I understand that
proceedings for contempt of court may be brought against anyone who makes or
causes1 to be made, a false statement in a document verified by a statement of truth
without an honest belief in its truth.
Dated: Sep 26 2023